If they are not paying your bills or taking care of your family, they are not in a position to tell you what you should do.
I’ve become a fruit inspector.
I look at the “fruit on the tree” of the person offering their opinion, or what they might think is advice. If they do not have what I want in life, then I don’t take their opinion.
I have become very selective with who I allow to influence my life & my mindset. People who have the things in life I desire for my family are those who have positive influence in my life.
Put a bouncer at the door of your mind & be careful who you allow to influence you. Your life & family’s future depend on it !!!